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Sexuality and intimacy counselling in Vaughan

Struggles with intimacy are common, and they are rarely just about sex. In a safe, judgment-free space, we help you reconnect with yourself and your partner, and rebuild closeness with compassion. In Vaughan and online across Ontario.

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Couples Therapy - InnerSight Psychotherapy
★★★★★ 4.9/5 · 100+ Google reviews
Safe and inclusive · online across Ontario
25+Registered
Psychotherapists
4.9/5Google rating
100+ reviews
LGBTQ+affirming and
inclusive care
$0First consultation
20 minutes

Clinically reviewed by Svetlana Antonyshyn, Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO #001652). Last reviewed June 2026.

It is rarely just about sex

Intimacy is more than physical

Real closeness is built on emotional safety, honest communication and trust. When those parts of a relationship come under strain, intimacy tends to strain with them. The distance you feel is often a signal that something underneath needs attention, not a sign that anything is broken.

Difficulty talking about sex and intimacy is incredibly common. Many of us were never taught the words, or grew up learning to feel shame around the subject. So it makes sense if it feels hard to bring up, even with someone you love and trust.

Counselling gives you a calm, confidential place to explore all of this gently, without shame or blame. We welcome people of every orientation, identity and relationship, and we meet you exactly where you are.

In plain words

Sexuality and intimacy counselling is warm, evidence-based talk therapy for the emotional and relational side of closeness. It helps you understand what has changed, find the words, and reconnect. It is respectful, judgment-free, and you share only what you choose.

Emotional safety, communication and trust come first
Inclusive and affirming of all relationships and orientations
Judgment-free, in person or online across Ontario
A gentle starting point

Intimacy is more than physical

Closeness can fade for all kinds of reasons, and none of them mean you are beyond reconnecting. Pick whatever feels closest to home, and see how we would meet it together.

What you might be feeling

“We share a home and a life, but lately we feel more like roommates than partners.”

How we would meet it

Emotional closeness is the foundation of physical intimacy, so we start there.

In sessions we work through this at your pace, with no pressure and no judgment. Talk it through with a therapist, free for 20 minutes.

Is this you?

What we help you work through

Whatever has shifted in your intimacy, you are not the first to bring it here, and it can change. All relationships and orientations are welcome.

Communicating about intimacyFinding the words for needs and desires that have felt too hard to say out loud.
Mismatched desireWhen you and your partner want closeness at different times, in different ways.
Emotional disconnectionFeeling more like roommates than partners, and missing the closeness you once had.
Rebuilding closeness after conflict or betrayalSlowly restoring trust and connection after a rupture in the relationship.
Intimacy through life changesWhen parenthood, aging or a major transition reshapes how closeness feels.
Shame or anxiety around sexGently easing the discomfort, worry or self-criticism that gets in the way.
Identity and orientationA supportive, affirming space to explore who you are and how you love. Intimacy after traumaReconnecting with safety and closeness when a painful past still lingers.
No judgment, ever

What your first session actually looks like

Talking about intimacy can feel daunting before you start. It does not have to be. Here is exactly how those 55 minutes tend to go.

1
Minutes 0 to 10

Settling in

A warm welcome, a few words on confidentiality, and a clear reminder that you share only what you choose. There is no judgment here, ever.

2
Minutes 10 to 30

Understanding what has shifted

Together you look at what feels disconnected, what you would like to rebuild, and the emotional and relational threads underneath it, all at your pace.

3
Minutes 30 to 50

A first step toward reconnecting

Your therapist offers a gentle, practical way to start communicating and reconnecting, so you leave with something to build on, not just talk about.

4
The last 5 minutes

Leaving with a plan

You agree on what you are working toward and one small thing to notice or try before next week.

How we work

Warm, inclusive, evidence-based care

Intimacy work is most effective when it tends to both the connection between you and the feelings underneath. Your therapist tailors the approach to you.

Emotionally Focused TherapyUnderstand the emotional cycle between you and rebuild a secure, close bond.
Inclusive, sex-positive talk therapyAn affirming, non-judgmental space for every orientation, identity and relationship.
Trauma-informed careGentle, paced work that keeps you feeling safe when the past is part of the picture.
Communication & connection skillsPractical ways to talk about needs and desires, and to feel close again.

Our therapists provide counselling for the emotional and relational side of sexuality and intimacy. They do not provide medical treatment, so for physical or sexual-health concerns we encourage seeing a physician too, and we are glad to work alongside your medical providers. InnerSight was founded by Svetlana Antonyshyn, RP, on the belief that care should treat the person, not a label. Every therapist here is a Registered Psychotherapist regulated by the CRPO. More about our approach.

Your guides

Meet therapists who work with intimacy

Every therapist below is a Registered Psychotherapist experienced in relationship and intimacy work. Watch a short intro, read their profile, or let us match you in your free consultation.

Svetlana Antonyshyn, Registered Psychotherapist and founder in Woodbridge

Svetlana Antonyshyn

Registered Psychotherapist · Founder
RelationshipsIntimacy
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Valeria Matei, Registered Psychotherapist in Woodbridge

Valeria Matei

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Emotionally focusedRelationships
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Cristian Renzi, Registered Psychotherapist in Maple and Vaughan

Cristian Renzi

Registered Psychotherapist
RelationshipsIntimacy
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Not sure who fits? Browse all 25+ therapists or let us match you. You can switch anytime, and your file moves with you.

Transparent pricing

What sexuality and intimacy counselling costs in Vaughan

No hidden fees and no pressure. Most clients pay little or nothing out of pocket after insurance.

$0Initial consultation · 20 min

Meet a therapist, ask anything, and see if it feels right. No credit card and no obligation.

$180Individual session · 55 min

Most private insurance plans cover a portion of services from a Registered Psychotherapist. We provide receipts for direct claims.

$280Couples & family session · 85 min

Intimacy work is often done together. Longer couples sessions give you both room to be heard and to reconnect.

Psychotherapy is also tax-deductible as a medical expense in Canada. Questions about coverage? See our reduced-fee program or call us, we are happy to walk you through it.

From our clients

Care you can feel

A 4.9/5 rating across 100+ Google reviews.

★★★★★

“Andrea is wonderful. She is passionate about providing the best care for those who are struggling with their mental health.”

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Common questions

Sexuality and intimacy counselling in Vaughan: your questions, answered

Is this the same as sex therapy?

We provide counselling for the emotional and relational side of sexuality and intimacy. For medical sexual-health concerns, we encourage seeing a physician too.

Do I need a referral for sexuality counselling in Vaughan?

No referral is needed. You can book a free 20-minute consultation online at psychotherapyclinic.janeapp.com or call (905) 553-9507. Most people have their first full session within a week.

Can I come on my own or do I need a partner?

Either works. We work with individuals and with couples, so you are welcome to come on your own or together.

Is this inclusive of all identities and relationships?

Yes. We are LGBTQ+ affirming and welcome all relationships and orientations. You will be met with respect, whoever you are and however you love.

Will I have to share explicit details?

No. You share only what you are comfortable with, and sessions stay respectful. The work is about understanding and connection, not graphic detail.

Is it available online across Ontario?

Yes. We offer secure video sessions anywhere in Ontario, plus in-person sessions in Vaughan, Woodbridge and Barrie. Many people find that talking from home feels more comfortable for this kind of work.

How much does it cost and is it covered?

The first consultation is free for 20 minutes. Individual sessions are $180 for 55 minutes and couples sessions are $280 for 85 minutes. There is no OHIP coverage, but most private insurance plans cover a portion of services from a Registered Psychotherapist.

What happens in the first session?

A relaxed, judgment-free conversation about what feels disconnected and what you would like to rebuild. There is no pressure and no script, just space to be heard.

Where to find us

Counselling near you: Vaughan, Woodbridge, Barrie and online

In-person sessions at three locations, plus secure video sessions anywhere in Ontario. Evenings and weekends available.

Getting started

Three steps to reconnect

1

Book your free consult

Online in 2 minutes or by phone. No referral, no credit card.

2

Meet your therapist

Talk it through and get matched with the right fit for you.

3

Reconnect, at your pace

Build closeness, communication and trust, gently and without shame.

Closeness can be rebuilt

Intimacy struggles are common and workable, and the first step is a free, no-pressure conversation. You can take it today, on your own or together.

Book a free consult Call (905) 553-9507